Join 35,000+ people who follow Dara & GarrettThe 7 conversations that took us from shutting down to praying together
Without expensive programs, awkward workbooks, or hours you don't have. 20 minutes a week, together, whether you're in a hard season or a really good one.
You love each other. Nobody ever taught you how to have these conversations.
Or maybe things are really good right now, and you want to keep it that way. That's exactly when to build the foundation. The couples who last don't wait for something to break.
7 weeks from now, your relationship can feel different
The 7 Conversations Method
Everything you need to put God at the center of your relationship and keep Him there.
Built to be watched on the couch, not studied at a desk
Each conversation is a 15 to 20 minute video of the two of us talking honestly, with a worksheet you fill out together right after. Conversation 1 is ready the minute you join, and a new one unlocks every week.
- ✓Watch on your phone, laptop, or TV
- ✓Printable and phone-friendly worksheets
- ✓Scripture, real stories, and one practical tool in every conversation
- ✓Yours forever, to come back to every season
Putting God at the center
Build a faith rhythm that fits your real week, even when you're in different seasons with God.
- A weekly faith rhythm you'll actually keep
- A word-for-word guide to praying together
Communication
Learn to say what you're actually feeling instead of going quiet, and to listen without getting defensive.
- The listen, repeat, respond tool
- 5 questions you've never asked each other
Conflict
Stop the same fight on repeat by learning to repair together, not separately.
- The repair conversation: pause, own it, reconnect
- Fight rules you write and sign together
Feeling safe
Name the walls you've built and finally feel safe letting each other all the way in.
- Where your walls came from, and why they made sense
- How to let your person in without feeling exposed
Building on a small budget
Get on the same team with money, even when the budget is small and the dreams are big.
- The 30-minute monthly money date
- How to dream big without fighting about it
Boundaries and purity
Set boundaries together that honor God and each other, without guilt or shame running the show.
- Boundaries you choose together, not by guilt
- What honoring each other looks like day to day
Building your future
Write down the life you're building, so you're walking in the same direction for years to come.
- A shared vision for faith, family, work, and service
- Written together, so you can come back to it every year
3 bonuses to help you start strong
Watch the first 5 minutes of conversation 1 together
No email, no signup. Press play with your person and see if it's for you.
We're not marriage experts. We're a couple who had to learn this the hard way.
If you found us on Instagram or TikTok, you've seen the highlight moments. Here's the part that doesn't fit in a reel.
We met when Garrett was 17 and I was 19, and we started dating in 2023. Not long after, his dad passed away on the day of his graduation. He was 18. He stopped talking about the hard things after that. Then his mom was diagnosed with cancer, and we had to walk through that whole storm again.
I wasn't going to let him drift from his faith or from us. Some days I just held on and kept pointing us back to God.
What neither of us realized was how many walls he had built. There was a lot of anger and guilt in that season, and I learned I couldn't fix everything for him. So I stayed beside him while he went to therapy and slowly let me all the way in. Little by little, we found who we were again.
We got engaged in 2025 and married in 2026, and looking back, we can see God working through every part of it. That's why we started making content, and that's why we made this. Real love isn't a perfect highlight reel, and no couple should expect it to be. We want to show you what it actually looks like, and give you the real steps to get there.
The 7 Conversations Method is every conversation we wish someone had walked us through. No lectures. No perfect-couple act. Just the two of us, real stories, scripture, and the tools that actually worked for us.
This is for you if:
- You're dating seriously, engaged, or married (especially in your first 5 years)
- You want God at the center but don't know what that looks like day to day
- You're in different seasons with God and want to grow together anyway
- You're tired of the same fights and want real tools
- You want to build something that lasts, not just survive
This isn't for you if:
- You're looking for a perfect-couple highlight reel
- You're single right now (this one's for couples, but we're praying for your person)
- You're in a crisis, abuse, or addiction situation. Please reach out to a licensed Christian counselor. You deserve real support.
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Our 14-day promise to you
Do conversations 1 and 2 together. If it doesn't help your relationship, email us your two completed worksheets within 14 days and we'll refund every dollar. No hard feelings. Dara & Garrett
Questions couples ask us
What if my partner isn't sure about it?
Watch the free 5-minute preview together first. It's usually what gets them in. It's 20 minutes a week, not a commitment to change everything overnight.
We're busy. Do we have time for this?
It's 20 minutes once a week. Most couples spend more time than that deciding what to watch.
Do we have to be married?
No. It's built for couples who are dating seriously, engaged, or married.
Do we need to be super spiritual already?
Not at all. One of you might be on fire while the other is just getting by. That's normal, and it's exactly where we start.
We're long distance. Will it work?
Yes. Watch together on a video call and do the worksheets on your phones.
We're not in the US. Can we join?
Yes. It's fully online and works anywhere in the world.
Is this counseling?
No. We're not licensed counselors. This is a faith-based course built from our own story and scripture.
Why one conversation a week?
Because these are conversations to have, not videos to rush through. Conversation 1 is ready the minute you join, and a new one unlocks each week so you actually live each one.
How does the 14-day promise work?
Do conversations 1 and 2 together and fill out both worksheets. If it doesn't help, email us the two worksheets within 14 days of joining and we'll refund every dollar.
How do we get access?
Right after checkout you'll get an email with your login, and conversation 1 is ready to watch. If it's not there in 15 minutes, check spam and promotions, or email [email protected].
Your relationship is worth 20 minutes a week
The couples who last aren't the ones who never struggle. They're the ones who keep having the conversation. Let's have it together.
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